The Bride of Christ
“Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies” (Proverbs 31:10).
My sermon today is about The Bride of Christ.
In the last chapter of the book of the Proverbs, we see a bride whom God Himself took notice of. I believe the Lord desires us to consider what it was about her that caught His eye. After all, the Scriptures say that God’s eyes search to and fro throughout the earth to show Himself strong on behalf of those whose hearts are right toward Him. In Scripture – the Church, the body of believing Christians, is seen as the bride of Jesus Christ, you and I ought to ask ourselves, “Am I that virtuous one that He is looking for, am I Bride material?”
It is similar to the question that God once asked Satan: “Hast thou considered my servant Job, that there is none like him in the earth?” (Job 1:8). God saw something of an enduring quality in Job and He called him a perfect and upright man. This does not mean that he was without fault, for there is no perfection in any human being apart from Jesus Christ within us. The perfection God saw in Job was sincerity, integrity and uprightness in his walk. Job was a man who feared God and shunned evil.
Ruth was another example of someone who caught the eye of her redeemer at that time. Boaz, the kinsman-redeemer, had the power to bring her into an extraordinary inheritance in a place of safety. He said to her, “It hath fully been showed me, all that thou hast done” (Ruth 2:11) Ruth had been doing what she knew to be right—she was kind to her mother-in-law and she continued faithfully gleaning in the field. Boaz later said these incredible words to her: “And now, my daughter, fear not; I will do to thee all that thou requirest: for all the city of my people
doth know that thou art a virtuous woman” (Ruth 3:11)
She had caught his eye! Can you say that today? Are you one who shuns evil and pursues what is good? Can God look at you and say that there is a sincere and upright heart inside of you—
that He has found someone who has caught His eye?
So let us look at Proverbs 31 in order to gain a greater understanding of the characteristics of this virtuous bride that the Lord is asking us to consider. Let us walk through some of the chapter, verse by verse, and uncover the many pictures of her… beginning at verse 11.
Where we read …
“The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life” (v11–12). We see that this bride seeks to honour God. She is trustworthy, seeking to honour her husband all the days of her life. Do you seek to honour God?
Is that the core of what you are living for and why you profess
to be a follower of Jesus Christ?
Lets read on…
“She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. She is like the merchants’ ships; she bringeth her food from afar” (v13–14). Here we see a woman who seeks the best of materials to work with and willingly goes to work. She makes sure that the work she has been given to do is of the best quality possible. She is not merely grabbing whatever is close by and making do with it? Such a person will never catch the eye of God. No, the bride goes far—all the way to the throne of God. She goes to those places that may be inconvenient and inaccessible to the lazy person.
“She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens” (v15). She gets up early and spends time in prayer, specifically naming those under
her care to ensure that they are well provided for. She rises and says, “God, You have given me charge of these people around me, and I do not want to merely have scraps to offer them.
I want to have meat to provide for those who are under my care—a word in season for someone who needs it.”
“She considereth a field, and buyeth it” (v16). She is industrious and brings increase to her husband’s house. She considers the harvest and considers what she is called to do. The Scripture says that the kingdom of God is like a person seeking goodly pearls. When he finds a pearl of great price, he goes and sells everything he has so that he may own that. (Matthew 13:45–46)
Likewise, the virtuous bride finds something of great value: the heart of God. She finds that reaching out to a fallen humanity is really what the kingdom of God is all about—bringing people into security and safety through Jesus Christ. She finds this field, considers it, and buys it: “With the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard” (Proverbs 31:16) She plants something that will grow—something that will need attention and something that will bring increase to her husband’s house.
“She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms. She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night. She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff” (v17–19). Here this woman keeps herself strong and takes inventory of the quality of her work. She is unafraid to have it judged by Christ Himself, for she perceives, as far as she knows, that her work is good. All the while, her light does not go out, meaning that she refuses to give up regardless of how dark or difficult her days are.
“She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. She is not afraid of the snow for her
household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.” (v20–21) The virtuous bride is one who gives to the poor, concerned about those in society who are in need. Perhaps she once knew what it was like to need strength for herself, and she found that a kind hand gave it to her. She is not sitting at home and reading the Scriptures in order to focus on herself. Everything is bringing her to focus on the needs of other people as well as her own household.
“She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple. Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.” (v22–23) Carrying herself with such dignity ultimately brings public honour to her husband. Consider the time when the Queen of Sheba, who was outside of the kingdom of God, journeyed all the way to the temple simply because she had heard a report about King Solomon. The queen testified, “When I saw the dignity—when I saw how you walked into the house of God – and the divine order of those around you who are serving the kingdom of God—my breath was taken away” (2 Chronicles 9:3-4) Her heart was stirred to the point where her breath was gone!
You and I ought to take a moment to consider: How do we carry ourselves throughout the day? Is it with such dignity that we bring honour to the King? Do we stir the hearts of those around us? If ever there was a time when you and I are called to walk with dignity, it is now. There is no other way to do this but by having an inner bearing of Jesus Christ. We must be gripped by the Spirit of God. We must have another mind, another heart, another spirit. We cannot be of this world, embraced by the foolishness of our age.
We read on …
“Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.” (v25–26). She has great hope for the future. Even in the difficult and dark days we are living in, do we Christians have great hope for the future? Speaking for myself, I am not rattled by anything I read in the news. I do not expect things to get any better in this world, for my value system is not here anymore. The reason I have great hope is because in my spirit I see multitudes coming back into the kingdom of God. I can see prodigals from everywhere coming home, sinners returning to the house of God. I can see empty Churches filling up again, and counsel the Church that it is time to expand – time to build, time to open up, not to shut down.
We read …
“Her children arise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her” (Proverbs 31:28) In other words, the children around her, love her – and consider her ways worth following. They look at this bride, and they rise up, saying,
“The blessing of God is here! Why would I go anywhere else or consider any other kind of lifestyle? Why would I be drawn into things that are powerless and of no profit? I see something here that I desire.” Do folks see something in your Life and in mine, in your Church or in mine that attracts them to Jesus? Does His beauty rest on you?
The last verse in the chapter contains a phenomenal thought: “Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates”. (Proverbs 31: 31) What exactly is the fruit of her hands? Could it be that God wants to give something to His
Church—something that He desires to do in our lives that we have not fully considered yet? In order to understand this, let us look at the first generation church as described in Acts, chapter 4. Keep in mind that they were only a stone’s throw from the Day of Pentecost. The disciples were heading out in one accord, making a difference in their society. A lame man had just been healed in the temple, which brought Peter and John into trouble with the authorities, who ordered them to stop speaking, or preaching in the name of Jesus.
What did the disciples do at that point? They gathered to pray! “And now, Lord, behold their threatenings: and grant unto thy servants, that with all boldness they may speak thy word,… ” (Acts 4:29).
Notice that they did not pray, “Lord, protect us. Prosper us, give us homes, give us food.” They had advanced beyond praying for their own needs, for they understood that as they sought first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, all these things would already be added to them. Instead, they were praying for something that only God could give. They essentially prayed, “Lord, darkness is encroaching upon the testimony of Jesus Christ. It is rising up, trying to silence Your voice and the testimony of Christ in this generation. So Grant that with all boldness, we may speak Your Word … “Let signs and wonders be done in the name of Jesus!” This did not mean that they were going to stand boldly in the marketplace and become obnoxious.
What they were asking of the Lord was that He would stretch forth His hand and do more through them! I believe that the fruit of your hands is simply this: it is God stretching out His hand through yours. As you walk righteously as a virtuous bride, you have the right to go to the throne and ask,
“Lord, stretch out Your hand through my hands. As I speak in Your name, let my hands be used to anoint the eyes of the blind, to unlock prison doors. Let my hands be signposts; let them be gentle; let them be as the hands of God in this generation. Let my hands be given to the needs of others, that once again You might be brought to good reputation in this generation!”
The Scripture says when the disciples had prayed, the place where they were assembled together was shaken. They were all filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak with great boldness. Then we also see another outworking of this prayer: “And the multitude of them that believed were of one heart and of one soul: neither said any of them that ought of the things which he possessed was his own; but they had all things common. And with great power gave the apostles witness of the resurrection of the Lord Jesus: and great grace was upon them all.” (Acts 4:32–33)
Does that sound familiar? The immediate fruit resembled that of the bride in Proverbs 31. Suddenly the disciples were of one heart and one soul. There was a release from selfishness, and now each of them was doing exactly as the virtuous bride —looking to the left and to the right toward the needs of others.
In contrast, as we look at our generation today, it is easy to conclude that we may be one of the most selfish generations of all time. Self-focus permeates every strata of society and has ultimately resulted in all the turmoil we are experiencing in our world today. I believe the testimony of the Lord’s Church in these last days will be, “God loves you, God can set you free, God will provide for you, God knows the way out of your
“Give her the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.” (Proverbs 31:31) In other words, let her own works declare who she is, and let her influence be felt in the city. I believe the Lord is going to do something so sovereign in His Church that people will have no choice but to stop and acknowledge her. Whether they agree or disagree, they will have to stop because the tenderness and kindness, the decorum of God, will be so clearly upon His bride. She will no longer be considered irrelevant and insignificant in this generation.
And so the question remains: Who can find a virtuous woman?
Today if you are able to say, “Lord, as much as I know, I am walking in the truth that You have revealed to me. I am not playing religious games or holding onto things that You have clearly told me to surrender. I am walking away from evil, and I am walking toward Your work on the earth”— then the Lord says at the end of His question, “Give her the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.”
Can I ask you about the “fruit” of your hands? What have you in your hands today that you can give to God – or will you come home to him at the last with empty hands?
This is a call to faith—a call to go deeper and farther than we have ever gone before. It is a faith that moves to action, believing God for the impossible. It is a faith that says, “I am not settling here. I refuse to get something that is convenient and cheap and bring that as a testimony to the work of God. No! I will go farther, following wherever God leads me so that I might become all that He is calling me to be. I will trust God for the miraculous, asking Him to shake the place where I am,
to fill me again with his Holy Spirit, and stretch out His hands through me to bring healing to this generation. By the grace of Almighty God, I will be the kind of bride who catches the eye of Jesus Christ!” Is that your prayer, is that mine?
NOW THIS FINAL WORD
Most of you will know that I am not married, but that does not mean that I know little or nothing about a Wedding Day.
I know that whether or not they can afford it, every Bride
wants to walk down the aisle in “Glorious splendour.”
God wants his Church, His Bride glorious too. This is why he has not yet come to collect her and take her home. She is not yet glorious not yet radiant, not yet ready. However she will get there and when Jesus comes to collect her and to call His Church away – it is for a “Glorious Bride” that He comes. Whether you like it or not, whether you agree with it or not, whether you have revelation about it or not, whether you will be part of it or not, Gods Church will be glorious. On the morning of the wedding the car does not come for the bride when she has her hair in rollers and is still in her bedroom slippers, …No! the car comes when she is ready, radiant and ravishing!
So I must ask you today, are you ready and is your Church ready? Tragically, many of our Churches are little more than religious social clubs. Like the old song that goes “and they’re all made out of tiki-taki and they all look just the same“. If they don’t look like us, sing like us, smell like us, dress like us, we don’t want them?
There are some people we would not let in, some we refuse to sit beside, some we don’t and won’t ever welcome, and some who
we openly hate. The sectarian curse that plagues our Northern Ireland Society has crept in to many of our Churches and although we hate to admit it, we willingly tolerate it.
God forgive us!
Now let me say it long and let me say it loud, God will purge us from all of that – mark my words. Such sectarian division does not and can not live or survive in the Kingdom of God.
It is a stain on our wedding garment, and it must be removed and removed NOW! If we refuse to forsake sin we hold on to sin, – and if we hold on to sin, God must let us go.
It is high time to let sin go and hold on to God for good.
Ask yourself today, “am I soiling or spoiling the wedding garments – is it me?” Get down on your knees and ask for Gods forgiving mercy before it is for ever too late!
Remember, the Bride is about to be called away to the marriage Supper of the Lamb. We are all invited, but we may not all
Attend? Some may miss that Divine transportation that’s coming for them … will you?
God Bless you